Love insecurity

Love is a fascinating beautiful thing. Love is a great feeling for us all and is the most powerful of all human emotion. But love can at times go wrong. 

Past experiences can damage our love. Past experiences can make us fear love and be scared to commit again. But why should we let it? 

We cannot allow one bad experience to affect us going forward. We cannot take one bad experience out on our new love. Afterall it isn’t their fault. So let the past be the past and leave it there. Go into your new relationship and give it 100%. Give that person your trust same as they have yours. Life and love is a gamble we must take. 

So dont let the past affect your present and future. Leave them experiences in the past and just bring forward with you the lessons from it. Leave the pain behind and use the knowledge of the pain to make you stronger and to make you better in new relationship. Life is a learning curve we grow stronger as we move forward. 

So why let a person of the past who’s potency is as weak as water on you affect your mind and your new love?  Your new love is as strong as Hercules. Bask in the glory of your new love. Give them everything you have. If you love them then show them. Fight to keep them. Dont let the past cloud out the future. Banish the dark clouds and make now and the future like a beautiful summers day. 

So dont let the past affect you. Remember love is a staircase and each step is stronger love. Sometimes we fall but at the top is true love. Keep climbing. 

So be re-born with your new love and start from scratch stronger and wiser. Go into it with eyes wide open and a heart of freedom. 

Dont live in fear of hurt. For fear is the enemy of success. Dont let fear stand between you and what you want. If you want that person destroy the fear. Dont let yourself down and be strong. Dont be your own worse enemy. 

We have all had bad experiences but be the smart person you are and overcome them. In fact be thankful to them for teaching you love. For without pain how can we know true love? 

So give your new love a chance and go into your relationship with belief in each other. Let them have your trust 100% until they break it. It is a commitment you have both made. Love is the greatest thing of all when it works both ways. Dont let the faces of the past upset the faces of today. The face you love now and eternally. 

So let your love overcome your fear for love conquers all!  

The blink of an eye

Time goes by in the blink of an eye, 

dont think everything will always stay the same, 

you will only have yourself to blame, 

time just doesnt stand still, it moves quickly at its own will, 

Dont miss out on oppurtunity, make the most of what you see,

dont put off till tomorrow what can be done today, 

because before you know it that time and dream has gone away, 

life is short and sweet make the most of who we meet,

they wont always be here, so keep in touch with those who you value dear,

If you find love never let it go, the greatest feeling we can show,

for hindsight is a wonderful thing, as your love is loved by another being, happy once again in their new beginning,

make the most of chance while you can, 

for we all live and die and time passes by in the blink of an eye,

in the blink of an eye…

Them broken eyes

I stood before my friend,  who at times has been my enemy,  I looked into his eyes and they showed a broken man. 

Tears drained from them down his cheek but he made no noise. He gazed back at me and said no words. 

The love of his life had broke his heart, innocently she had found the love of a new man,  and just like that she had left him, just like that she was gone,  never to return. 

Now all he was left with is memories, heartbreak and the tortured visions of the girl he loved with another man lay next to her in bed in his mind. He wanted be there and he wanted to be the one who held her. But just like that his dream was over. 

He stood a broken soul,  knowing she would marry elsewhere and have children with another man. For them three amazing years he had loved her so much. He adored her, she had been his guide, his light and he protected her and respected her. But time hadn’t stood still and life passed by and her destiny was sealed. 

All he can do now is accept it knowing she preferred another man,  that she makes love to another and it breaks his heart. He hadn’t always been perfect but he loved her deeply and honestly. He did his best for her to keep her safe. To him she was the most beautiful girl in the world.  

He wasn’t all innocent himself. He had hurt her feelings once talking to another girl by caring for another. But it wasn’t a sexual interest just a close friendship but dangerous also. Still he hurt her but stayed to pick up the pieces and make her OK. But there was no one here now to pick up the pieces. He was alone injured like a soldier on a battlefield. I have never seen him so wounded. Maybe karma had struck. 

His tears of sadness flow,  his sleepless nights continue,  his tortured mind replays images,  his heart is in a billion pieces. 

Before me is my friend,  before me is his lost soul,  missing the guidance she gave him,  missing the words she said which he clung onto and believed in like no other. 

His three amazing years with a girl he loved truly had come to an end and so had his world. For she was his world and she had saved him from darkness in the first place. Now he had to do the right thing and let her go. Let her be happy. Together they had experienced every emotion,  anger, hate, sadness, jealousy, rage,  but the love outweighed them all. But now it is over and he possesses only sadness. 

What happens when love goes wrong? May my friend someday rise again