The beauty of marriage

Marriage – a beautiful commitment between two souls. Where love is shown at its strongest and most powerful. 

For most of my life I never have believed in marriage. I thought it was an outdated insitution and a religious ceremony of years gone by which should of been banished to history. I believed it favoured woman traditionally over a man. In England marriage became less and less as had religion. I was one of these English people who had decided marriage wasn’t for them. 

That is of course until one day – when your eyes see the most beautiful girl who ever lived. Who changes all your dreams and desires and goals in life and you know you just have to have her. That you want to marry her. The only girl you will ever want to marry. 

That this perfect girl has to be yours truly with the ultimate commitment. That you want to be stood waiting for her to come walking towards you on your wedding day and you turn to see the most beautiful girl in the world coming towards you to marry you and be your wife and share your life forever. 

You know she has the most amazing beauty,  most amazing heart and eyes and hair and soul which you could never find anywhere else in the world and you just want her as your wife. She’s your bestest friend also in all the world and you know you would die to save her and be with her forever. 

Marriage holds beauty in the holding of hands with your one true love,  the exchanging of vows of devotion and dedication to one person forever. The beauty of commitment and love. Marriage is where dreams and families are brought together and where love can grow stronger between two people as their dreams mix together as one. There’s not much more beautiful in this life than such a vow. 

So if you have someone like that make sure you marry them and love them and be safe in the knowledge they are yours and commited to you forever and sleeps in your arms every night. Do the right thing by her and give her that show of love. Put that ring on her finger and devote to her forever. 

I want to stand before her and confess my undying love for my one true love and commit and devote to her forever before the eyes of God. I want her to be mine and love me forever. She’s the angel of my lifetime. 

This applies to everyone in every religion. Marriage is a beautiful loving ceremony. Its a new beginning for love amongst two people and hearts joined together. Its where a man has a reason for living. Knowing he has to live just to love her and be near her. Romance is beautiful in a wedding and a joining of a marriage. 

So if you have a special someone make sure you win her heart and marry her. Because imagine the devastation that you didn’t – and she became someone elses girl and the girl that you love is marrying someone else and loves him and is commiting to him forever. The thought of that is a painful hurtful one. Dont lose that oppurtunity and go for it and win her heart and make sure she is yours for if you do not then you face devastating emotion and hurt and pain forever. The hurt of knowing the dream is over and she can never be yours. 

You will be sat there thinking – I loved her, I wanted her, I needed her,  she belonged to me and your heart is in many pieces. So dont risk losing her,  dont lie or cheat or mess her around or break her trust. Keep her on the path of truth and devotion. If she’s your one true love bask in her beauty and foresake all others. 

So before its too late marry your one true love and live in eternal happiness and love forever. Never take it for granted she will be yours if you dont make the effort. Always show her you love her. Never give up on your love especially if she loves you. A womans love is strong and true to a man and without question dedicated to a man she loves. So if you have the love of a woman make sure your love is pure in return. 

So there was a time when I thought marriage was a thing of the past and living together was the future. But perhaps this is a little more primitive and less moral than marriage. Where is the joy and true commitment of love in just living together? 

I believe now marriage is the future for us all and to live within love deeply. To devote deeply and cement a nice beautiful love and family together. What beautiful values there is within such a ceremony. 

So imagine standing there before the person you love in a beautiful place vowing to love the person you love forever before people you love and care about and who love you also and re-joice in your happiness of love. What a beautiful day. 

In my eyes marriage is beautiful and the source of all true love. The union of love and the walking together into paradise. 

I wish you all a long happy beautiful marriage. You may now kiss the bride…. 

Love insecurity

Love is a fascinating beautiful thing. Love is a great feeling for us all and is the most powerful of all human emotion. But love can at times go wrong. 

Past experiences can damage our love. Past experiences can make us fear love and be scared to commit again. But why should we let it? 

We cannot allow one bad experience to affect us going forward. We cannot take one bad experience out on our new love. Afterall it isn’t their fault. So let the past be the past and leave it there. Go into your new relationship and give it 100%. Give that person your trust same as they have yours. Life and love is a gamble we must take. 

So dont let the past affect your present and future. Leave them experiences in the past and just bring forward with you the lessons from it. Leave the pain behind and use the knowledge of the pain to make you stronger and to make you better in new relationship. Life is a learning curve we grow stronger as we move forward. 

So why let a person of the past who’s potency is as weak as water on you affect your mind and your new love?  Your new love is as strong as Hercules. Bask in the glory of your new love. Give them everything you have. If you love them then show them. Fight to keep them. Dont let the past cloud out the future. Banish the dark clouds and make now and the future like a beautiful summers day. 

So dont let the past affect you. Remember love is a staircase and each step is stronger love. Sometimes we fall but at the top is true love. Keep climbing. 

So be re-born with your new love and start from scratch stronger and wiser. Go into it with eyes wide open and a heart of freedom. 

Dont live in fear of hurt. For fear is the enemy of success. Dont let fear stand between you and what you want. If you want that person destroy the fear. Dont let yourself down and be strong. Dont be your own worse enemy. 

We have all had bad experiences but be the smart person you are and overcome them. In fact be thankful to them for teaching you love. For without pain how can we know true love? 

So give your new love a chance and go into your relationship with belief in each other. Let them have your trust 100% until they break it. It is a commitment you have both made. Love is the greatest thing of all when it works both ways. Dont let the faces of the past upset the faces of today. The face you love now and eternally. 

So let your love overcome your fear for love conquers all!