In life there will come a point where we need to close one chapter and begin another.
As I flick through the chapters of my life and it is probably the same with most people – the most interesting chapters and tales are from childhood. The adult world seems to oppress our dreams and events and limit the excitement of the chapters in our life.
If your life became a book – you would become the main character. You are within every page and all events, people and scenarios revolve around you. Is your main character an interesting character? Is the plot interesting? Has there been many chapters and stories to tell?
Often we waste many times in the story of our life re-reading and editing the same chapter over and over again with the same characters but now is a time we must turn the page and begin a new chapter with a new story and different people and locations and plots.
Although there are times when I wish I could go back and re-live a chapter again. Ones which hold fond memories and moments and people within them. I wish I had the luxury to turn back to pages where I was at my happiest.
So we must flick through the pages and see what we think of the book of our lives…
How many people have we got in our lives that have become stale?
How many situations and locations have gone boring and the same four walls trap us?
Is it time for us to now begin a new chapter and turn the page to a new section and a fresh subplot?
We are the writers of our own story. We can decide the people who should be written out of the book of our lives and the change of scenes that we desire.
Our lives are a story and we must make it an interesting story. We afterall are the main character in the story of our life.
What do we desire the story of our live to be? A love story, a sad story of a horror story? We have the power to decide. I often think perhaps our stories are many different genres.
We all wish and desire a life of love but first we often suffer sadness, pain and despair. But we must take the pen and keep writing to develop what we desire at the end of our book.
As with most stories there will be a villain or a dark character. We must come to expect this and tolerate the darkness in our lives as this is the part of every story. But we must work on being the hero and being centre stage and we must work on making our story a happy ending.
They may not be a dark character or evil or nasty in general but just not good for us and best off elsewhere and time for them to be written out of the story of our life.
I often see many people stuck in one chapter in their lives and have no clue of how to begin a new chapter and seem quite unhappy and in standstill. They have become uninteresting to others and have no new tales to tell. These people have the writers block of life and have many blank pages.
So you are writing a story of your life into the reality of civilization. Is yours an interesting tale? Has it had many twists and turns and events taking place?
Remember you are the main character and the story revolves around you…
Has your life become stuck on the same chapter and is it now time for a new chapter?
Have a quick flick through the pages of your life and see whether it is now time to change the chapter….
May you have a long and interesting life and many chapters and stories to tell….